Misc. Quotes on Aging

 

My brain is much more easily fatigued now, and I have forgotten lots of things, but I think on the whole that it is much clearer than it was. The simile is that, if the level of the sea of forgetfulness rises over a landscape, the peaks of the mountains that remain above the surface stand in clearer relationship than when you could see all the intervening

landscape.  Konrad Lorenz

 

I promise to keep on living as though I expected to live forever. Nobody grows old by merely living a number of years. People grow old only by deserting their ideals. Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up interest wrinkles the soul. Douglas MacArthur

 

Be on the alert to recognize your prime at whatever time of life it may occur. Muriel Spark

 

The great use of life is to spend it on something that will outlast it. William James

 

Life is no brief candle to me. It is sort of a splendid torch which I have got hold of for a moment, and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations. George Bernard Shaw

 

Age is a grace that we must earn, not a weight to crush us.

 

Nobody knows the age of the human race, but everybody agrees that it is old enough to know better. —Anonymous

 

Nobody grows old by merely living a number of years. People grow old only by deserting their ideals. Years wrinkle the face, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul. —Watterson

 

Nature gives you the face you have at twenty; it is up to you to merit the face you have at fifty. —Coco Chanel

 

I have no romantic feelings about age. Either you are interesting at any age or you are not. There is nothing particularly interesting about being old — or being young, for that matter. —Katharine Hepburn

 

 We turn not older with years, but newer every day. —Emily Dickinson

 

 Most people like the old days best — they were younger then. —Anonymous

 

 In this life the old believe everything, the middle-aged suspect everything, and the young know everything. —Anonymous

 

We are all, it seems, saving ourselves for the Senior Prom. But many of us forget that somewhere along the way we must learn to dance.  Alan Harrington

                                                                                                                           

By the time a man gets to green pastures, he can’t climb the fence.

 

Getting old is no cause for hysteria. The rose bush does not scream when the petals begin to fall. Douglas Meador

 

There’s hardly a man alive who could not retire very comfortably in his old age if he could sell his experience for what it cost him.

 

Retirement is not the closing of an old door, but the opening of a new one. It is the exciting approach to an infinite variety of new testing of a man’s ability, new

stretchings of his mind, new releases for his energies and abilities. All that is required is that he must recognize new challenge when it presents itself, and accept it

zestfully. If he has been doing this all of his life, it will be easier for him in the later years, but in one form or another the opportunity awaits everyone, if he will only

seek it. Clarence Randall

 

For most men there should come a time of shifting harness, of lightening the load one way and adjusting it for greater effectiveness in another. That is the time for the

second career, time for the old dog to perform new tricks. The new career may bring in little money; it may be concerned only with good works. On the other hand,

it may bring in much needed support. It can be a delight to a man who comes at last to a well-earned job instead of a well-earned rest.  Dr. Wilder Penfield

 

All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make, the better. Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

Prepare to live by all means, but for Heaven’s sake do not forget to live.” Arnold Bennett

 

One cannot control the length of his life, but he can have something to say about its width and depth.

                                                              

Life was meant to be lived, and curiosity must be kept alive. One must never, for whatever reason, turn his back on life. Eleanor Roosevelt

 

Life without love is a bird without a song. Life without trust is a night without day. Life without faith is a tree without root. Life without hope is a year without  Spring.

Life without friends is a sun without shade. Life without work is a bloom without fruit. Dr. William Arthur Ward

 

Have you ever thought how solemn a thing it is to live? If you are grateful for your life, set a value on it: find out how much it is worth, and if it falls below what you

would have it, begin to increase its value. . be full of hope and love, and resolve to make as much of life as you can.  Ida Scott Taylor

 

The first forty years of life give us the text; the next thirty supply the commentary on it. Arthur Schopenhauer

 

Maturity is not being taken in by oneself. Katjetan von Schlaggenberg

 

Middle age is when a narrow waist and a broad mind begin changing places. Glenn Dorenbush

 

Middle age is when you are not inclined to exercise anything but caution. Arthur Murray

 

Middle age is when you have met so many people that every new person you meet reminds you of someone else and usually it. Ogden Nash

 

“Old age is the happiest time in a man’s life. The worst of it is, there’s so little of it.”  William S. Gilbert

 

                                                       Senescence begins

                                                      And middle age ends

                                                    The day your descendants

                                                     Outnumber your friends.

                                                              Ogden Nash

 

Life consists not in holding good cards but in playing those you do hold well. Josh Billings

 

The great use of life is to spend it for something that outlasts is. William James

 

Age is only a number, a cipher for the records.  A man can’t retire his experience. He must use it. Experience achieves more with less energy and time. Bernard Baruch, on his 85th birthday

 

Old age isn’t bad when you consider the alternative. Maurice Chevalier

 

The years between fifty and seventy are the hardest. You are always asked to do things, and yet you are not decrepit enough to turn them down. T.S. Eliot

 

Who knows whether in retirement I shall be tempted to the last infirmity of mundane minds, which is to write a book. Geoffrey Fisher, Archbishop of Canterbury

 

Most people say that as you get old, you have to give up things. I think you get old because you give up things. Senator Theodore Francis Green, at 87

 

The spiritual eyesight improves as the physical eyesight declines. Plato

 

The advantage of being eighty years old is that one has had many people to love.  Jean Renoir

 

When you are forty, half of you belongs to the past. And when you are seventy, nearly all of you. Jean Anouilh

      

A man is not old until his regrets take the place of dreams. John Barrymore, "Good Night, Sweet Prince" 1943

      

     Grow old along with me!

     The best is yet to be.

     The last of life, for which the first was made.

              Robert Browning "'Rabbi Ben Ezra"

      

     Years steal

     Fire from the mind as vigour from the limb,

     And life's enchanted cup but sparkles near the brim.

George Gordon, Lord Byron "Childe Harold's Pilgrimage"

      

Old age is no place for sissies. Bette Davis

      

If youth but knew; if age but could. Henri Estienne

      

      

     For age is opportunity no less

     Than youth itself, though in another dress,

     And as the evening twilight fades away,

     The sky is filled with stars invisible by day.

              Henry Wadsworth Longfellow "Morituri Salutamus" 1875

      

At age fifty, every man has the face he deserves. George Orwell

      

Age is a question of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.  Satchel Paige

      

How old would you be if you didn't know how old you was?  Satchel Paige

      

Age seldom arrives smoothly or quickly. It’s more often a succession of jerks.  Jean Rhys

 

     Some reckon their age by years,

     Some measure their life by art;

     But some tell their days by the flow of their tears

     And their lives by the moans of their hearts.

              Abram Joseph Ryan

      

 Old age is the most unexpected of all the things that happen to a man. Leon Trotsky

      

Nobody grows old merely by living a number of years. We grow old by deserting out ideals. Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul. Samuel Ullman

      

     Be wise with speed;

     A fool at forty is a fool indeed.

              Edward Young

      

     Like our shadows,

     Our wishes lengthen as our sun declines.

              Edward Young "Night Thoughts"

  

To stay young requires the unceasing ability to unlearn old falsehoods. Robert A. Heinlein

      

The secret of eternal youth is arrested development. Alice Roosevelt Longworth

 

With age, we become responsible for what's in our heads--the character of the memories there, the music we are familiar with, the storehouse of books we have

read, the people whom we can call, the scenery we know and love. Our memories become our dreams. Edward Hoagland, Harper's, January, 1991.

 

I promise to keep on living as though I expected to live forever. Nobody grows old by merely living a number of years. People grow old only by deserting their

ideals. Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up interest wrinkles the soul.

Douglas MacArthur, New York Times, June 8, 1984.

 

Age has extremely little to do with anything that matters. The difference between one age and other is, as a rule, enormously exaggerated.--Rose McCaulay (Dangerous Ages) 

 

Age is no barrier. It's a limitation you put on your mind.--Jackie Joyner-Kersee

 

Age puzzles me. I thought it was a quiet time. My seventies were interesting and fairly serene, but my eighties re passionate. I grow more intense as I age.--Florida Scott-Maxwell

 

The aging process has you firmly in its grasp if you never get the urge to throw a snowball.--Doug Larson

 

Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old.--Franz Kafka

 

Children are a great comfort in your old age--and they help you reach it faster, too.--Lionel Kauffman

 

The excitement of learning separates youth from old age. As long as you're learning you're not old.--Rosalyn S. Yalow

 

The great thing about getting older is that you don't lose all the other ages you've been.--Madeleine L'Engle (The New York Times, 1985)

 

If you wait, all that happens is that you get older.--Larry McMurty

 

A test of a people is how it behaves toward the old. It is easy to love children. Even tyrants and dictators make a point of being fond of children. But the affection and care for the old, the incurable, the helpless are the true gold mines of a culture.--Abraham Heschel

 

We don't stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing.--George Bernard Shaw

 

Why is it that, as we grow older, we are so reluctant to change? It is not so much that new ideas are painful, for they are not. It is that old ideas are seldom entirely false, but have truth, great truth in them. The justification for conservatism is the desire to preserve the truths and standards of the past; its dangers, of which we are seldom aware, is that in preserving those values, we may miss the infinitely greater riches that lie in the future.--Dale Turner

 

Wisdom doesn't necessarily come with age. Sometimes age just shows up all by itself.--Tom Wilson

 

     The years like great black oxen tread the world,

     And God, the herdsman goads them on behind,

     And I am broken by their passing feet.

--William Butler Yeats

 

                                To be seventy years old is like

                                climbing the Alps. You reach a

                                snow-crowned summit, and see

                                behind you the deep valley stretching

                                miles and miles away, and before you

                                other summits higher and whiter,

                                which you may have strength to climb,

                                or may not. Then you sit down and

                                meditate and wonder which it will be.

 --- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, L.L.B.,(hon), 1859

 

 

                                You don't grow old; when you cease

                                to grow, you are old.

                                                -- Charles Judson Herrick, 1868-1960

 

He who is of a calm and happy nature will hardly feel the pressure of age, but to him who is of an opposite disposition, youth and age are equally a burden. - Plato

 

Wrinkles should merely indicate where the smiles have been. -- Mark Twain, Following the Equator (Mark Twain Quotations)

 

Middle age: when you're sitting at home on Saturday night and the telephone rings and you hope it isn't for you.

 

You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream--Les Brown

 

To be seventy years young is sometimes far more hopeful than to be forty years old. --Oliver Wendell Holmes

 

 I like the dreams of the future better than the history of the past.  --Thomas Jefferson

 

It is sobering to consider that when Mozart was my age he had already been dead for a year. --Tom Lehrer

 

And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. --Abraham Lincoln

 

Middle age is when you've met so many people that every new person you meet reminds you of someone else. --Ogden Nash

 

Old people should not eat health foods. They need all the preservatives they can get. --Robert Orben

 

When it comes to age we're all in the same boat, only some of us have been aboard a little longer. --Leo Probst

 

The wise man doesn't expect to find life worth living; he makes it that way. - Ancient Greek Proverb

 

 While there's snow on the roof, it doesn't mean the fire has gone out in the furnace.  John G. Diefenbaker

 

 “It is my feeling that as we grow older we should become not less radical but more so. I do not, of course, mean this in any political-party sense, but in a willingness to struggle for those things in which we passionately." - Margaret Laurence

 

Old age has its pleasures, which, though different, are not less than the pleasures of youth. W. Somerset Maugham

 

If you take all the experience and judgment of men over fifty out of the world, there wouldn't be enough left to run it. Henry Ford

 

 Maturity is that time when the mirrors in our mind turn to windows and instead of seeing the reflection of ourselves we see others. Author Unknown

 

One of the most important phases of maturing is that of growth from self-centering to an understanding relationship to others A person  is not mature until he has both an ability and a willingness to see himself as one among others and to do unto those others as he would have them do to him. H. A. Overstreet

 

To know how to grow old is the master work of wisdom, and one of the most difficult chapters in the great art of living. Henri Frederic Amiel

 

Some men never seem to grow old. Always active in thought, always ready to adopt new ideas, they are never chargeable with fogyism. Satisfied, yet ever dissatisfied, settled, yet ever unsettled, they always enjoy the best of what is, and are the first to find the best of what will be. Shakespeare

 

It is not by the gray of the hair that one knows the age of the heart. Edward Bulwer-Lytton

 

A graceful and honorable old age is the childhood of immortality. Pindar

 

How beautiful can time with goodness make an old man look.

 

Old age adds to the respect due to virtue, but it takes nothing from the contempt inspired by vice; it whitens only the hair. J. P. Senn

 

When we are young, we are slavishly employed in procuring something whereby we may live comfortable when we grow old; and when we are old, we perceive it is too late to live as we proposed.

 

Age does not make us childish, as some say; it finds us true children. Goethe

 

He who would pass his declining years with honor and comfort, should, when young,

consider that he may one day become old, and remember when he is old, that he has once been young. Addison

 

While one finds company in himself and his pursuits, he cannot feel old, no matter what his years may be. A. B. Alcott

 

Gray hairs seem to my fancy like the soft light of the moon, silvering over the evening of life. Richter

 

One's age should be tranquil, as childhood should be playful.

Hard work at either extremity of life seems out of place.

At midday the sun may burn and men labor under it;

But the morning and evening should be alike calm and cheerful.

 

The quality, not the longevity, of one's life is what is important. Martin Luther King

 

When I was young I was amazed at Plutarch's statement that the elder Cato began at the age of eighty to learn Greek. I am amazed nolonger. Old age is ready to undertake tasks that youth shirked because they would take too long. - W. Somerset Maugham

 

Warning

                                     When I am an old woman I shall wear purple

                                     With a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me.

                                     And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves

                                     And satin sandals, and say we've no money for butter.

                                     I shall sit down on the pavement when I'm tired

                                     And gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells

                                     And run my stick along the public railings

                                     And make up for the sobriety of my youth.

                                     I shall go out in my slippers in the rain

                                     And pick the flowers in other people's gardens

                                     And learn to spit.

 

                                     You can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat

                                     And eat three pounds of sausages at a go

                                     Or only bread and pickle for a week

                                     And hoard pens and pencils and beermats and things in boxes.

 

                                     But now we must have clothes that keep us dry

                                     And pay our rent and not swear in the street

                                     And set a good example for the children.

                                     We must have friends to dinner and read the papers.

 

                                     But maybe I ought to practise a little now?

                                     So people who know me are not too shocked and surprised

                                     When suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple.

 

                                                by Jenny Joseph

 

                                            Age is opportunity no less

                                            Than youth itself, though in another dress,

                                            And as the evening twilight fades away

                                            The sky is filled with stars invisible by day.

 

                                                by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

 

 

                                                      Jitterbug Rap

 

                                         Come on you Grannies, get in the groove

                                         This old folks' world is startin' to move

                                         No more waitin' for the phone to ring

                                         No more huntin' for blues to sing

                                         You and I got plenty to do

                                         Just playin' catch-up will take a few

                                         Months of practice then we'll really swing

                                         Just like Benny or some Dorsey Thing.

                                         The more we sit, the more we grumble

                                         You'll feel like your hind end's caught in the rumble

                                         Seat of your boyfriend's old Model A

                                         Back in the thirties--that'd be the day.

                                         Forget about the old days? Not if you're smartest

                                         You can make new days--you're a new-day artist

                                         Take all the good stuff you know how to do

                                         Match it up easy with somethin' brand new.

                                         Surprise all the young bucks, enlighten your kids

                                         Show you've learned more than preemptive bids.

                                         Join a few classes, shake those tired limbs

                                         Go for a workout in broken-down gyms

                                         You'll fit right in there if you don't watch your step

                                         "Fit" is the right word if you're gonna be hep.

                                         Try a new hobby, tie a new fly

                                         Climb a small mountain just fifty feet high

                                         But get out and do it, don't sit there and rust

                                         Read a new book, help the old lady dust

                                         Walk at your leisure around the school track

                                         Then wait a few days before you try to go back

                                         Don't whine about Dentugrip, Maalox and Tums

                                         Call up your old cronies--those lazy bums

                                         Sprawled 'front of TV rotting away

                                         While you're out there having a wonderful day.

 

                                         by Frances Weaver

                                                 I'm Not As Old As I Used To Be

 

 

 

                                                      Senility Prayer

                                                    God grant me the Senility

                                                      to forget the people

                                                     I never liked anyway,

                                                       the good fortune

                                                    to run into the ones I do,

                                                       and the eyesight

                                                    to tell the difference.

 

                                                      Anonymous (?)